“When the devil had
finished all this tempting, he left him until an opportune time.” Luke 4:13
Even the devil had to wait for an
opportune time! One of God’s fallen angels had to wait. Because there is only
one who controls time--God. God knows the hour of our birth, and the hour of our
death. He knows our struggles, our triumphs, our hours of despair and our hours
of happiness. And He knows best how long a human heart needs to heal.
God
crafted the human heart. He knows the physical workings and the
spiritual/emotional workings. Time is not the enemy: time is the cure. Just
like a broken bone needs to be set by a doctor and given time to knit
itself back together; a heart needs to be set by the great Healer. Though an x-ray
would not have shown the break in my heart, it was real. The pain in my chest was
real. The nights I spent with a pillow curled to my chest in order to keep my
heart from spilling out in pieces on the floor were real.
I had to
give my heart into an expert’s care. The bandages were invisible to the naked
eye and took awhile to get in place. Hurting creatures react badly to anyone
getting close to their wounded place. I was the same way. But consistent hugs
from friends, long and strong and comforting, laid strips of gauze around the
broken halves of my heart. Phone calls, cards, and prayers added the white tape
to hold the gauze in place and yet allowed the break to breathe, not fester.
The
bandages got ripped off a few times that first long year, reopening the wound,
but my dear God-sent friends who knew the process by now. They listened to me rant, rave, sob and all the while they began wrapping my heart again with
their tender loving care.
God is the
only one who knows the opportune time to free me or you from the bandages. But
when He does remove the last strips of gauze we will be stronger, healthier
and more compassionate than ever before. I genuinely believe this to be true.
Practical steps: Receive the loving attention of
friends and family. Make time for them. Accept their help and kindnesses. It’s
a sweet salve that eases the ache of a broken heart.
Your
thoughts: _________________________________________________
“By faith Sarah herself also
received strength to conceive seed, and she bore a child when she was past the
age, because she judged Him faithful who had promised. Heb
11:11 NKJV
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